How to self-motivate and increase momentun?

萨米

I have lost the motivation and momentun to work.....

My manager had a serious conversation with me today.....


Are there anyone had the experience of being lost in work? How did you motivate yourself?


Sincerely ask for suggestion. Thanks.

腿毛菲菲

lost the motivation and momentun to work 会是什么样的症状呢？

since

不是吧。。。刚签完contract...

老板跟你谈话还不是动力？？

purplefog

我也有过，每个人都有up and down的时候。找你最喜欢的方式放松一下。
我就去跳舞。去dance studio跳4个小时

missmia

4# purplefog

我也是。。。我的办法就是结婚～～～～～～

purplefog

5# missmia
这个，对我，有点困难

萨米

4# purplefog

我也是。。。我的办法就是结婚～～～～～～
missmia 发表于 2009-11-5 13:00

if i had one, i would.....

z-score

I have lost the motivation and momentun to work.....

My manager had a serious conversation with me today.....


Are there anyone had the experience of being lost in work? How did you motivate yo ...
萨米 发表于 2009-11-5 13:56

Yes, after the first year I have lost all my motivation. It is hard to keep your self always motivated.

LifeFullColour

Seems I am having the same problem...

nothing much you can do, i think my way is to meet more friends, spend all my money shopping, eat, travel...

until u have no savings then you will be motivated.

z-score

4# purplefog

我也是。。。我的办法就是结婚～～～～～～
missmia 发表于 2009-11-5 14:00

Yeah, true this actually can help.

For me, it's games.

z-score

To be honest Sam, it is very hard to keep motivating yourself when you are doing stats. Honestly, stats is a dodgy subject, I have really found this. When we had lectures, the lecturers well most of them made the subject very interesting. But this is the flip side, the more interesting a subject is in class, the worse it is in real practice. Lecturers needed the perfect examples to hide all the bad examples in real life.

I think research is a really depressing area to work in because you are almost always wasting your time doing nothing useful in the end. I tried my current job and this assured me that I can't work like this forever.

阿海

having a steady paycheck and making sure my credit card & house mortgage payments are paid on time helps to motivate me.

But then again I'm pretty lazy at work because work load is never 100% in 5 years I have worked.

Robert Kiyosaki's books motivate me to stay where I am but keep looking for oportunities =)

missmia

12# 阿海

海哥好久不见。。。

“steady paycheck and making sure my credit card & house mortgage payments are paid on time”，这个也是我的动力。

purplefog

Robert Kiyosaki 的粉丝好多

夜.冥狼

去gym吧。。。。。

跑个几圈之后，什么都想开了。

duncan

totally agree to marriage, gym and money, as said by people upstairs..

夜.冥狼

Robert Kiyosaki 的粉丝好多
purplefog 发表于 2009-11-5 16:37

Rick dad, poor dad 's author ???

duncan

ps. I had same problems but my manager just agreed to increase my salary, now I get motivation again.

celenachen

Seems I am having the same problem...

nothing much you can do, i think my way is to meet more friends, spend all my money shopping, eat, travel...

until u have no savings then you will be motiva ...
LifeFullColour 发表于 2009-11-5 15:26

good one

missmia

16# duncan

是呀，结婚了就觉得有了责任感，想好好过日子，自然就会积极了～～～

purplefog

17# 夜.冥狼
yes, that's him

夜.冥狼

16# duncan

是呀，结婚了就觉得有了责任感，想好好过日子，自然就会积极了～～～
missmia 发表于 2009-11-5 16:48

Marriage is something can instantly depress me.

INSTANTLY..........

Sometime I ring my parents, and they joked about find a gf for me, and I just can feel my mood drops like a free-fall........

celenachen

Marriage is something can instantly depress me.

INSTANTLY..........

Sometime I ring my parents, and they joked about find a gf for me, and I just can feel my mood drops like a free-fall..... ...
夜.冥狼 发表于 2009-11-5 16:51

to be honest i think you need help about your low-mood bb

missmia

22# 夜.冥狼

小狼可以去演风云了 。。

celenachen

22# 夜.冥狼

小狼可以去演风云了 。。
missmia 发表于 2009-11-5 16:56

活在黑暗里，不被人理解，也无法自拔于沮丧的情绪中---

夜.冥狼

to be honest i think you need help about your low-mood bb
celenachen 发表于 2009-11-5 16:53

well, My theory is that when a man get married, depending whether he really find "The ONE", he has a chance of :
       - 5% :  to achieve higher level of self-improvement  (A Handful of luck guys)
       - 70%: to maintain at same level    (Vast majority)
       - 25%: drop-level (degeneration)   (Minority but still significant)

So.......... That's what depress me.

celenachen

well, My theory is that when a man get married, depending whether he really find "The ONE", he has a chance of :
       - 5% :  to achieve higher level of self-improvement  (A Handful of luck guy ...
夜.冥狼 发表于 2009-11-5 17:03

一your theory is based on imagination. You never got married before, how could you know what it is like?
实践是检验真理的唯一标准

purplefog

26# 夜.冥狼
where did u get the stats from?

love_3_month

it is good to see little wolf to be one of the sane perple.

missmia

嘿嘿家庭主妇来打个酱油～～～