上班族想找女朋友真难

DARKSUN

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[ 本帖最后由 DARKSUN 于 2008-6-23 14:11 编辑 ]

在风里

新西兰的好女生很多呢， 最看不得男同志老说现在不现实的女孩子很少拉， 现在会做饭的女孩子很少拉， 现在善良的女孩子不多拉。 。。。。。。。 ， 现在好的女孩子多的是， 关键在你的选择的时候视野放宽点，别老盯着美女， 身材好，。。。。。等等等，  就会留意到你们所说的那些不现实 ， 会做饭， 善良的女孩子了。

花天堂

concentrate on your work and you will have a lot of opportunity when its the right time.

Man dont need to worry as much as woman. once woman gets over 30, it will be very difficult. but for man? I dont think there is a stringent limit as for girls.

花天堂

man wants a pretty wife
woman wants a rich husband

whats wrong with that.

DARKSUN

human nature ‘s sofa

missmia

周末看了sex and the city,深刻的感觉到女人一定要有钱.
不然到了30岁,就会成了楼上花花所说剩女.

花天堂

exactly.

expecially woman gets old much faster than man.

a 50 year old guy can still pretend to be a young guy if he doesnt have belly and still has hair.

but a 50 year old lady? well.... I dont want to say.

pAtrick

I want a good looking nice body lady with exceptional temper and great career.

Yeah

在风里

原帖由 pAtrick 于 2008-6-23 13:34 发表
I want a good looking nice body lady with exceptional temper and great career.

Yeah

look, that is why you guys hard to find bf. haha , there is a gap between dream and reality la !

pAtrick

Yeah it is really hard for me to find a bf. Like I am not really a gay.

z-score

原帖由 missmia 于 2008-6-23 13:22 发表
周末看了sex and the city,深刻的感觉到女人一定要有钱.
不然到了30岁,就会成了楼上花花所说剩女.

嗯，Sex and the city会让人depressing, 不然哪可以这么多的LV, 婚纱都是Dior的．

missmia

原帖由 z-score 于 2008-6-23 14:30 发表


嗯，Sex and the city会让人depressing, 不然哪可以这么多的LV, 婚纱都是Dior的．

平常心就好了.KEN很不屑里面的女人,觉得她们又老又爱折腾.

我倒是觉得她们活的挺精彩,谁说老女人就不允许有欲望。可惜这是千万分之一的人的人生，当故事来看看罢了。

让我最depressing的不是买不起的名牌，而是无论女人多么富有漂亮和聪明，大多数的时间里还是在围着男人转的事实，也包括要性不要爱的Samantha和傲气能干的Miranda。

其实这也没有什么不好，我们总是要活在这样的社会里，妥协也会变成一种享受。

botox works all the time :p

z-score

原帖由 missmia 于 2008-6-23 14:42 发表


平常心就好了.KEN很不屑里面的女人,觉得她们又老又爱折腾.

我倒是觉得她们活的挺精彩,谁说老女人就不允许有欲望。可惜这是千万分之一的人的人生，当故事来看看罢了。

让我最depressing的不是买不起的 ...

I'm gonna work really hard so I can gift botox to my gf as a present.

117wik

It's really interesting how guys complain bout how hard it is to meet new girls, but quite a female friends around me always complain bout not having the right opportunities to meet the right guy too. I guess all they need is just opportunities to get to know each other?

Here's a few girls around me that are single:

- A, age 24, Taiwanese, IT professional, looking for a Taiwanese bf preferably.

- B, age 26, China, marketing exec? (can;t remember her exact title), looking for someone that's reasonably mature and successful career wise

- C, age 26-28, China, customer manager (can't remember her exact title either), not sure bout her requirement, but she's TALL (170cm - 173cm i think).

the list can go on and on, those listed above are those i am quite close to and don;t forget friends always have friends that are looking too. All i am trying to say is, there are still lots of single quality girls out there, not all of them are after nice car or big house (obviously most girls want to go out with a guy that does slightly better than her).

don;t give up, eventually you will find your mr/mrs right. good luck

花天堂

原帖由 117wik 于 2008-6-23 15:24 发表
It's really interesting how guys complain bout how hard it is to meet new girls, but quite a female friends around me always complain bout not having the right opportunities to meet the right guy ...

Same here, I know a few single girls as well, they complaint they cant find mr. right guy.

the trouble is, when I go all the way to set them up, its either the boy think the girl is not good enough or the girl think the boy is not good enough....

as for Sex and the City, it is an entertainment only. to enjoy life like theirs,

you need to have 6 figure USD salary as basic requirement, because an apartment in Manhatten will fetch anything between 20 million USD to sky is the limit.
you need to be reasonably youngish, preferrably under 35, otherwise no energy to play play,
you need to be reasonably good looking, otherwise you get no one to play with you,

z-score

20 Million Dollars?

花天堂

yeah mate,
20,000,000 USD.

kirstens

the condition for men to be selected is that: you don't have to be very rich that can afford an LV per month, but you have to be able to achieve this in the coming future
just kidding. the point is, you have to have great potential in some aspects

kirstens

the ratio of F:M of Chinese resident/citizen in NZ aged 18-34 is not too bad. although it's true that more males than females...

DARKSUN

I'd rather spend 20mil to get a trip to the moon

向后看的鱼

据说现在女孩子都看重潜力股。。。

pAtrick

OK let's make up some senarios.

Suppose that I am a above average guy, with a big house, a sound career and no RPWT.

How do I get to know more girls? Through friends? Hang out?

One problem I found is that it is really hard to know ppl with the maturity, the will and/or the capability to fight for their future. Most of them don't even know what they are going to do tomorrow.

I don't personally like to hang out in a bar or something but I can try.

OK even if I do all that, what if these girls don't like to hang out and they don't even want to talk to you? Does successful guys neccessarilly to have the charm to impress girls? I doubt it.

Especially in this place where quality ppl are short in nature, all you got are disappointments. It is definitely easy for you ppl to talk about it but the reality is usually on the contrary.

tony0519

;05; ;05;

七彩叶子

lsd，你还不用desperate到bar里去know girls吧。。。。。。。。。。。。

pAtrick

I am just making stuff up to prove a point mate...

edwardzeng

要找女友，也套先show show 你的

七彩叶子

原帖由 pAtrick 于 2008-6-23 16:11 发表
I am just making stuff up to prove a point mate...

Ok, point taken, not necessary true though...........

edwardzeng

要找女友，先show show 你的 quality.
我就认识一个不错的女孩，但问题是在这里优秀的王老五实在太少了。

pAtrick

Show quality? How? Print my CV on a big board and wear it on the street like a sandwich?

七彩叶子

重要的不是性格和不和吗？？？？？？