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作者: Genius_Pig 时间: 2008-5-27 23:45:45 标题: Some Suggestions from Me for Single Friends Looking for Love Online

Today, me just passing through this "Singles looking for love" Board on Skykiwi and amsurprised at the way all these men and women, boys and girls writeabout themselves~~~

Bleeding hell the words they used to describe themselves are SO unbelievably unimaginative and Boring to Death~~~~

~~~~I can understand that some of you here having been single for your whole life and are getting ever more desperate for finding love, so you'd write everything as much as possible that you'd not wanna miss out any little details that makes you stand out above the crowd, and that using words, pics and anything else possible to tell others that you are sincerely looking for true love.

~~~~I can also understand that some of you here having been playing the game of Love for your entire life have come to realize that it's just another routine to go through this time around so you'd be quite happy to just write here words which let others know that though you have been a vetern a player in the past but you are now sincerely looking for true love.

~~~~~~~~~~and this is exactly the reason why you have failed again, again, over and over, again~~~~~

This way, the way you are using is NOT the way for finding Love~~~~~

Let's take an example, think about a movie~~~~~~~

Before we go to cinema to see a Movie, we often watch the previews of movies from TV, cinema or else where. Did you notice that, in this Previews or Trailors, the film companies are giving you a limited time for peaking into how the real movie will be like, showing you parts of the movie and little portion of the story~~~~this makes us want to see more, so we pay 2 watch the real thing~~~~ and it goes without saying, that when we say a Movie is a Master Piece, we mean that its story is so intriguing that up until towards the very ending of the movie we wouldn't have clue about whats gonna happen next and wouldn't even get the big picture of the ideas from the movie until we later watch it again for several times.

This is the Power of Attraction, ~~~~~ disclosing just enough information to entice the audience, just enough to keep the audiences' interests going and wanting for more,~~~~enough to make the audiences' imagination go wild~~~~SO they become HOOKED.

This is one of the many many techniques we should all employ in the game of Love~~~~ Using techniques is not about Cheating and Dishonesty, its about keeping the interest going and keeping the passion high~~~~~It's for making Love more Lovable, therefore enhancing success and reducing the risks of disinterests, which ultimitely will lead to Rejection or if in the case of an exisitng relationship, Cheating~~~~

If you cant seem 2 find your love, or have been rejected time after time~~~~

Post here so Maybe I can give you some advice~~~

作者: Genius_Pig 时间: 2008-5-28 02:55:10

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作者: 小羽毛 时间: 2008-5-28 04:59:37

。。。。。。传说中义务的恋爱顾问？

虽然用意很好，不过貌似不符合版规，很有可能被删呢～同志，阅读版规先吧。个人有个人的命，你能帮忙他们写帖子，还能帮忙他们和众多候选人一一聊天吗？不行的还是不行。你就静观其变吧～

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作者: 小羽毛 时间: 2008-5-28 05:01:26

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作者: 小羽毛 时间: 2008-5-28 05:08:43

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作者: 墨镜里的世界 时间: 2008-5-28 23:09:22

Women takes relationship serious, so do not screw up, guys!

作者: 未昏先晕 时间: 2008-5-28 23:12:55

我英文不大好，所以就不看了，进来只是顶下校友

作者: Genius_Pig 时间: 2008-5-29 02:47:27

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作者: Genius_Pig 时间: 2008-5-29 02:53:34

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作者: Genius_Pig 时间: 2008-5-29 03:07:11

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作者: valerie 时间: 2008-5-29 03:07:59

不太符合規矩吧

作者: huanAK 时间: 2008-5-29 13:59:21

good points, just like a CV, that is never write stories, be concise , precise and never lie ~~~

作者: ChicagoBulls 时间: 2008-5-29 19:08:13

電影院只要把觀眾騙進來掏空他們的口袋就行了，

我要是把不喜歡的人騙進來容易，想請出去就難了，感情不是兒戲

作者: 小羽毛 时间: 2008-5-29 19:15:26

原帖由 Genius_Pig 于 2008-5-29 01:53 发表

I know~~~~ But after looking at some of the posts in here, I got 2 say, although Online Dating is one of the many ways to find Love,~~~~

But~~~~

I'd rather see these people who posted h ...

既然你这么好心，那我捧捧场，问你一个问题：

如何在最短的时间内分辨出一个人的人品好坏？

真心求教。。。因为没有那么多时间浪费。。。谢谢。

作者: 小羽毛 时间: 2008-5-29 19:19:16

再问一个，看到你满篇的英文想到了：奥克兰主要的英文日报是什么？（我刚搬来）

作者: 未昏先晕 时间: 2008-5-29 20:44:18

原帖由 小羽毛 于 2008-5-29 18:19 发表
再问一个，看到你满篇的英文想到了：奥克兰主要的英文日报是什么？（我刚搬来）

新西兰头条啊。。。。。我想应该是吧

作者: 未昏先晕 时间: 2008-5-29 20:44:44

原帖由 小羽毛 于 2008-5-29 18:15 发表

既然你这么好心，那我捧捧场，问你一个问题：

如何在最短的时间内分辨出一个人的人品好坏？

真心求教。。。因为没有那么多时间浪费。。。谢谢。

ASK。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。

作者: lz 时间: 2008-5-29 20:46:09

回楼上: nz herald

作者: notebook0800 时间: 2008-5-29 21:03:57

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作者: 雁阵惊寒 时间: 2008-5-29 22:26:02

终于在缘分版有点让人眼前一亮的文章.顶了.

作者: 牧猫犬 时间: 2008-5-29 22:32:03

能试用就好了

作者: 复仇的微笑 时间: 2008-5-31 02:00:46

我英文不大好，所以就不看了

作者: Genius_Pig 时间: 2008-5-31 02:29:53

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作者: ChicagoBulls 时间: 2008-5-31 10:34:55

樓主也給我寫一篇吧

作者: ChicagoBulls 时间: 2008-5-31 10:37:11

能幫找到我想要的人，一定好好謝你

作者: qingyang 时间: 2008-5-31 11:35:34

原帖由 Genius_Pig 于 2008-5-27 22:45 发表
Today, me just passing through this "Singles looking for love" Board on Skykiwi and amsurprised at the way all these men and women, boys and girls writeabout themselves~~~

Bleeding hell the wo ...

The concept of this article is very interesting. Like the example used to illustrate how great the power of Attraction by disclosing enough but not too much informaiton. Just wondering have you ever read any novel before you watching the movie based on it? If it is yes, then what's your feeling after you finish watching the movie? Also wondering whether the writer himself /herself have already found his/her lover?

作者: Genius_Pig 时间: 2008-5-31 14:35:39

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作者: 2bad 时间: 2008-5-31 14:48:33

LZ學marketing的。。。很有pychology的底細啊，讚一個

作者: Genius_Pig 时间: 2008-5-31 14:51:39

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