如此没有儿女心的父母，你们能理解么？

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ilmaro 发表于 2016-4-24 23:23
不会吃饱了撑的去让自己孩子难堪,打击什么自信心自尊心.......更多的是恨铁不同钢,对孩子的期望过高了点.. ...

before we even talk about expectations, shouldn't parents take a good look at themselves, are a good enough role model for their kids, the competitions are tougher than it used to be, so rather than blaming ur own kids for the failure of ur own, i think it would be better for them to make changes as well.

these are all based on my own thoughts and experiences.

ilmaro

vph9756 发表于 2016-4-28 11:31
before we even talk about expectations, shouldn't parents take a good look at themselves, are a go ...

是的,很多中国的父母过份疼爱子女,甚至可以说自身的人生观念都未必就是正确的,对教育,特别是德育教育是不够的,因为人到晚年总会不可避免的反思,所谓歪瓜劣枣总有出处,最终的结果只有苦头自己吃,没个快乐的晚年,可木已成舟,对儿女的更多期待已注定是他们终生的包袱.........

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ilmaro 发表于 2016-4-28 11:40
是的,很多中国的父母过份疼爱子女,甚至可以说自身的人生观念都未必就是正确的,对教育,特别是德育教育是不 ...

yes,so they should just let it go, let it go, don't think too much about it.

ilmaro

vph9756 发表于 2016-4-28 11:52
yes,so they should just let it go, let it go, don't think too much about it.

呵呵,哪有这么容易 let it go 啊.......人这一辈子,最痛苦的,就是磨着自己那颗心,放不下啊.......

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ilmaro 发表于 2016-4-28 11:52
呵呵,哪有这么容易 let it go 啊.......人这一辈子,最痛苦的,就是磨着自己那颗心,放不下啊....... ...

i have already told them that as long as it makes me happy i will stay single and will never get a GF or married.

ilmaro

vph9756 发表于 2016-4-28 12:01
i have already told them that as long as it makes me happy i will stay single and will never get  ...

呵呵,这也是折磨中国父母的一项啊........多少父母在那里担心飘在新西兰未定归宿的儿女........

这样的父母就是精神病～

xdh666666 发表于 2016-4-12 10:41
我觉得所有父母钱买房的，名字一律写父母，能避免很多问题

有兄弟姐妹这么做有点意义，没兄弟姐妹的这么做没意义，有点掩耳盗铃啊

supervalues

没教育好吧