Marrying into a Chinese family

Malsicine

Dating for a long time now. Spoke of childrens and marriage. He have to go back to China and wishes that I join him. I am unsure as I don't know the language or lifestyle as never been to China. I love him and will endure but how much is too much? One thing I am worried is his parents as have never met them. Will they accept a foreigner marrying into a Chinese family?

爱国爱港

LZ disappeared!

aklsunshine 发表于 2012-5-4 11:26
看来一洋妞/其他外国妞找一国男，大家都是以鼓励姿态啊！！

为啥国女找洋人或其他外国男，打击声就一片呢 ...

告诉你，是我的给我放下，不是我的你也别碰

YEMUSIC

Just try it .if you can not fit in.then leave

georgezlei

Malsicine 发表于 2012-5-4 11:48
He introduced me to this site and luckily for me there is translation bar on top

What i ...

Try to admire his parents. Follow whatever they tell you unconditionally, even it is wrong.

If you have dispute with his parents, give up your own idea and follow them. If you boyfriend has dispute with his parents, try to defend his parents instead of him, even you think he is right.

You should treat his parents better than he does, even he tells you that isn't necessary.

At last, try to avoid living in same house with his parents. Unless they are really nice people, otherwise following above rules 24x7 will drive you crazy.

Sent my contact to you in private message. Pls feel free to ask me questions about Chinese cultures if you decide to move along with your boyfriend. Good luck for you.

Ardell假睫毛

aklsunshine 发表于 2012-5-4 11:26
看来一洋妞/其他外国妞找一国男，大家都是以鼓励姿态啊！！

为啥国女找洋人或其他外国男，打击声就一片呢 ...

因为自卑。

dodo123

是棒子还是日本？？

wendy0125

Lz, can u tell us about where you from and which city was u bf come from in China, then we can tell you about it..

for_undead

you will be fine

He has to ....居然还有语法错误 真的很让人怀疑

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月影薇馨

韵儿 发表于 2012-5-4 11:23
Just go and see how it goes, if you like then stay, if you don't then leave.

agree. U can know the turth.

manchild

phantom.?{:8_387:}

Wooowa

很好奇楼主是什么地方的人

LAZIE

Recipe, Shining. The son should Shijia.

Taozhiyaoyao Fen in fact. Son in return, should their married.

Recipe, its leaves Zenzen. Son in return, should their families

BaconHam

桃之夭夭，灼灼其华。之子于归，宜其室家。
桃之夭夭，有蕡其实。之子于归，宜其家室。
桃之夭夭，其叶蓁蓁。之子于归，宜其家人。  

- Google translate it..

zheng_xiao

回覆基本上清一色是英文啊~~~~我路過看一下~~~~

直面异议

One thing i can assure you: no one will show middle finger to you and say:go back to your f..ing country

Malsicine 发表于 2012-5-4 13:31
Just really hard as been together for a number of years. Live together and every night after work, I ...

remember that people always get cultural shocks, you love the country from the beginning or you hate it and then after a while you change. be aware of this psychological process.

not sure where u'r heading, but there're lots of english speaking foreigners now in the bigger cities. u wouldn't be alone.

i guess if you've decided to go, then inform yourself, their tradition, food, culture, what it's all like. be prepared. good luck

wsyyzyy

You love him then you should trust him, include his country and parents{:8_486:}

susie77

KIWI girl?

00001

Sure，they will accept a foreigner marrying into a Chinese family！

我的小小马甲

Would you mind telling me where are you from? And how long you have been together?

liqi3205

原来老外也说  "go back to China"   ...

You will easily find a "tall rich handsome" little 3 in China... Good luck! Have fun!!

heero_ho

Malsicine 发表于 2012-5-4 12:36
@ Skypiere  not sure what that mean. Sound like a poem though

@ Heero_ho and Venox yes the google ...

I c, google toolbar is awesome...

Give u some suggestions, mark them and consider them:

I dont know which city u are going to live?? The capital city of province?Like: NanKing, Peking, Canton? These are mega size cities in China. You will find out facilities and services which are quite similar to NZ..

However, the food, air quality, driving habits and custom are the issues u need to cope with..

good luck :)

feio

应该是个骗帖的，嗯！

4agefans

好奇楼主是那国人民兄弟姐们，不过那里都OK，欢迎到咱们家庭来